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Spiritual Outlaw. Midlife Midwife. Guiding Gen X Women Through the Real Work of Reinvention
Victoria Lee Starr guides Gen X women through the sacred season of midlife reinvention, helping them reclaim self-trust, inner safety, and their authentic power. Using breathwork for transformation, guided microdosing plant medicine support, somatic ritual, and emotional excavation, her work meets women in the places most avoid… the unraveling, the burning, the falling apart…and transforms those moments into a becoming.
Victoria's Topics
Speaking from my own Awakening
Midlife as a
Rite of Passage
Why women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s are unraveling and why this is actually the beginning of their becoming.
Spiritual
Outlaw
The future of healing beyond fluffy positivity and patriarchal conditioning.
Breathwork
+ Microdosing
for Emotional Reinvention
A grounded, embodied approach for women ready to reclaim self-trust and inner safety.
Living on
the Road
After Burning Down Your Life
Lessons from four years of nomadic living about freedom, intuition, and rebuilding identity.
Rebirth
After Divorce
Abuse and Identity Collapse
How to trust yourself again when everything familiar has fallen away.

Victoria’s Story
Victoria’s own awakening began in Costa Rica
When everything she thought she needed to feel loved, safe, and worthy started to collapse. What looked like failure was actually her Rite of Passage into self-trust, honesty, and the woman you become when you stop abandoning yourself.
After leaving an emotionally abusive relationship, Victoria rebuilt her life from the ground up and spent nearly four years living full-time in her Ram Promaster van with her dog, Olivia Grace. Her van became her initiation chamber, a sacred space to learn to trust her body, intuition, truth, and the quiet voice that had been waiting decades to lead.
Her Approach
Victoria works through…
- Psychological wisdom
- Nervous system healing
- Breathwork for Transformation
- Guided Microdosing Plant Medicine
- Intuitive Channeling
- Somatic Rituals
- Emotional Excavation
She helps Gen X women fully be themselves in midlife, showing them that falling apart is often the beginning of becoming.
"This work woke something up in me."
"I released old patterns, reclaimed my power, and stepped into a truer version of myself.
Victoria holds a space that’s safe, deep, and wildly transformative. It was a life-changing experience."
ASHLEY
Our Free Resources
Guided Meditation
Collection
Short, soul-nourishing meditations for midlife transformation
Breathe with Intention:
Your Toolkit
Practical breathwork exercises to reclaim calm, clarity, and self-trust
Hot Flashes Breathwork
A focused practice for navigating menopause with embodiment and empowerment
Meet Your Guide:
The Spiritual Outlaw
I call myself a Spiritual Outlaw because I refuse to heal or lead within the confines of traditional systems, surface-level fixes, or fluff.
This work is not about bypassing the hard stuff, it’s about entering the sacred, messy, untamed places where real healing lives.
I walk between realms of emotional, spiritual, somatic, and psychological and I'm not here to guide you to think your way into peace. I guide you to feel, to embody, and to remember.
A Spiritual Outlaw:
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Breaks the rules of what healing is “supposed to” look like
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Doesn’t fix you — she walks with you as you unlearn the lies and reclaim your soul
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Channels deep wisdom that comes from lived experience, intuition, and higher intelligence — not just certifications
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Uses non-linear tools like breathwork, somatic ritual, and emotional excavation to guide people back to their power
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Refuses spiritual bypassing and meets you in the root of it — trauma, lineage, nervous system patterns — and helps transmute them into gold
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Is wildly intuitive, slightly rebellious, deeply grounded, and divinely guided
I’m here to ignite you.
To hold the lantern while you remember who you were before the world told you to be small.
I’ve been the woman holding it all together while quietly falling apart.
The one smiling on the outside while feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, and exhausted on the inside.
I didn’t need more pressure or another strategy.
I needed a way back to myself — not through sanitized systems or surface-level solutions,
but through breath, emotion, and truth.
Because real healing doesn’t happen in tidy boxes.
It happens in the sacred, wild, untamed places.
That’s where I’ll meet you.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you’ve always been.
HAVE QUESTIONS?
Send me a message! I'm excited to help!
I would absolutely love to know what’s on your mind, so if you have questions, excitement, or hesitations, don’t be shy!
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It’s important to me that you feel empowered as you make this decision!